LADIES, USE YOUR FEMININE POWERS TO CONTROL YOUR MAN

 

Somehow, I think we are losing ourselves in the conundrum of pressures that daily living places upon us. The weight of striving to achieve personal goals while staying “woke” adds yet another layer to how far we’ve strayed. In my humble opinion, relationships have become increasingly transactional in tone and somewhat lifeless in all their forms and expressions.

Although some may argue that it’s much easier to date these days; with partners just a website search, a call, and a bargain away, that very ease strips away the excitement of building meaningful, lasting relationships. The thrill of the journey, the effort to connect deeply, and the beauty of creating something enduring are quickly fading into obscurity.

To compound these challenges, it’s disheartening to see a significant shift in gender roles among many people today. There appears to be a growing trend of men adopting more feminine traits, while on the other hand, women are becoming increasingly masculine in their approach to life. For women, perhaps this shift stems from the societal pressure to be more independent. But in the process, many are losing sight of the immense power their femininity holds—a game-changing advantage in any kind of relationship.

As a woman, you must understand that embracing your femininity doesn’t diminish you; it empowers you. Feminine energy is a natural counterbalance to the chaos that masculine energy can bring. You are the one who shapes and channels it as you choose. Sadly, this generation often fails to recognize this truth. The wisdom lies in understanding how to identify and flip the script to your advantage, contrary to popular opinion.

 

Let me share a few tips on how to communicate better and get what you want, every time. These tips are by no means exhaustive, but I trust you’ll get the gist.

For example, if you need to express frustration with your spouse’s or partner’s actions and want them to make necessary changes, resist the urge to lash out or provoke them—an approach many women default to. Instead, tap into your feminine superpowers and witness the transformative results you can achieve. Here are a few examples that might help;

 

1.    Instead of saying: “You are not doing enough.”

Say: “I appreciate what you do, and it would make me feel even more cared for if…”

2.    Resist the temptation to say: “You don’t care about my feelings.”

On the contrary say: “I feel safe when I know you understand how I’m feeling.”

3.    Do not say: “Why did you not call me?”

Say: “I miss hearing your voice, it would have made my day.”

4.    Avoid saying: “You need to listen to me.”

Say: “It would mean a lot if you could hear me out, I value your attention.”

5.    Never say: “You never take my advice.”
Instead, Say: “I trust your decisions, but I’d love for you to consider my perspective too.”

6.    Do not say: “You always forget to help me.”
It’s better to say: “It makes me so happy when you’re there for me. Could you help me with this?”

7.    Do not say: “Why do you always do things your way?”
You may say: “I love when we work together. Can we try deciding on this together?”

Remember, the key is to communicate in ways that inspire cooperation and understanding rather than conflict or resistance.

 

In the fast-paced world we live in, it’s easy to lose sight of what truly makes relationships thrive—understanding, respect, and balance. As women, tapping into your natural feminine energy is not about conforming to outdated roles but about embracing a unique strength that fosters harmony and meaningful connections. By choosing words thoughtfully and nurturing your relationships with patience and care, you can create bonds that stand the test of time. After all, the power to shape your relationships and your life lies in your hands.